Your Story Matters! Did you know that? It may be a struggle to realise this but people want to hear your story and they will listen to you when you tell it.
In this blog today I want to share with you how important it is to share your story with those around your table and for you to give permission for others to share theirs.
Today I had the opportunity to share my story with a group of strangers for an event called 100 Speakers run by Kaley Chu an International Speaker and Author. Her inspiration for this event was to give 100 people the opportunity to share their Real Authentic Stories to inspire those who would listen. It was actually also an audition for an event called Raw Talk happening in July (fingers crossed I get through). Think like a TED Talk.
The people who shared were just like you and me raw and real, not a professional polished performance but absolutely authentically themselves as they showed up to share. Their stories were so powerful and inspirational and it got me thinking… have we taken the time to share our stories of life, tragedy, pain and joy with those around our tables? If not, why not? I acknowledge there may be baggage attached to our stories and that is understandable but I am sure there is one thing that could be shared that could inspire our children. Better yet when our children share it might just inspire us.
Here is a few things that can happen when we share our stories of life with our children and crearte an environment where our children can share theres:
- Learn – Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with your children, reminiscing about the pre-parenting days, only for them to marvel at how distant it all seems, despite it being just a decade or so ago? It’s a common scenario. Yet, in those moments of reflection, when we share our past experiences with them, it’s a chance for them to realise that while it may seem like ancient history to them, there’s a wealth of wisdom and understanding to be gleaned.Take, for example, the struggles you faced in making friends during your own youth. As you recount these experiences, it may dawn on your daughter that you’ve been through similar challenges. Suddenly, your past becomes a bridge between generations, a source of connection that encourages her to confide in you. Despite the apparent eons that have passed, your shared experiences can serve as a reminder that some aspects of growing up are timeless, and your insights remain relevant, no matter how distant they may seem.
- Support – When you or your child/children shares there stories, it gives permission for everyone else around the table to support them and check in on them throughout the week.
- Vulnerability – When permission is given to share personal stories it creates a culture of vulnerability and that it is safe space to share without judgement and fear.
What story about your life haven’t you shared with the people at your table yet? Could it be the right time tonight?
Please be encouraged in conversations with your children about the past, there’s an opportunity for them to recognise the wisdom in your experiences, bridging generational gaps. Sharing personal stories fosters support and creates a safe space for vulnerability, encouraging openness and connection without judgment or fear.
Check out the website, click on Back at the table and this is where you will find some great conversation starters to get your started.
