
Holidays are often referred to as ‘the most wonderful time of the year’. However, for many parents, they can quickly turn into a hectic blur of planning, cooking, and cleaning. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of festivities, leaving little room for the real magic of the season: quality time with your children. This holiday season, let’s transform holidays into ‘holiyays’ by prioritising meaningful moments with our kids. One effective way to do this is by utilising The Table Talk Project during family dinners. In this blog, we’ll explore the importance of capitalising on the extra time with your kids during the holidays and share practical tips and examples to help you create memorable moments.
1. Rediscovering conversations
During the hustle and bustle of the school term, it’s common for parents and children to get caught up in their routines. Homework, extracurricular activities, and work commitments often take precedence over heartfelt conversations. The holidays offer a unique opportunity to reconnect and rediscover the joy of talking to your children about topics you might not have had the chance to explore during the busy school year.
Example: Over dinner, click on ‘Back at the table‘ on The Table Talk Project website and once you have answered a few questions, click on where you choose a conversation starter and pick one. It could be ‘Share about one good thing that happened today’. You might uncover hidden talents, dreams, or concerns your child has been keeping to themselves. Perhaps your child has developed a new interest in a hobby, and this is the perfect time to dive into it together.
2. The importance of preparing the family meal together
Family meals have long been recognised as a time for bonding and sharing. During the holidays, make it a point to gather around the dinner table, but first gather around the kitchen counter to make the food together. This simple act can foster stronger connections and open the door to conversations that might not have happened otherwise.
Example: Each family member can take turns choosing food to eat and then help create it. The key is to create an inclusive atmosphere where everyone’s thoughts are valued.
3. Quality over quantity
Remember that it’s not about the quantity of time you spend with your children but the quality of that time. Whether it’s baking cookies together, taking a nature walk, or simply curling up with a good book, make every moment count. Show genuine interest in their thoughts, feelings, and aspirations.
Example: Create a holiday tradition where each family member writes down their hopes and dreams for the coming year on a piece of paper. Share these aspirations over a meal, and discuss how you can support one another in achieving them.
Holidays are more than just a break from the everyday routine; they are a precious opportunity to connect with your children on a deeper level. By prioritising quality time and using tools like The Table Talk Project to facilitate meaningful conversations, you can turn holidays into ‘holiyays’ filled with cherished moments and lasting memories. Remember, it’s the moments of connection and understanding that make this season truly magical for your family.